Building Strong Couples. Together.
Affordable couples therapy in Berlin-Pankow & online. Available in German & English. No risk with a free initial consultation!
About me..
I am Anja Kasiborski, a certified couples therapist specializing in differentiation-based work.
In my practice, the focus is on making emotional entanglements visible and supporting individuals in gaining clarity about themselves, without blame, pressure to adapt, or repeating old patterns.
I completed a comprehensive differentiation-based couples therapy training at the renowned IDA Institute in Berlin (certified by the DGVT), as well as certified basic training in EFT (emotionally focused couples therapy). In addition, I hold a Master’s degree in Sociology, an IHK “Train the Trainer” certification, and further training in systemic counseling.
I am currently also offering a seminar on relationship communication at the Berlin Adult Education Center (Volkshochschule).
In my work, I aim to create a space where both partners can show up as they truly are, with insecurities, needs, and boundaries. I work in an empathetic, direct, and structured way so that change is not only discussed in sessions but becomes tangible in everyday life.
My Offer
There are countless self-help tips for relationships. Many of them sound logical and appear helpful at first glance. Yet they often remain superficial. Especially when we are emotionally triggered, it becomes difficult to apply what we have learned. As a result, many couples repeatedly fall back into old, unproductive patterns.
I do not promise quick fixes. My work focuses on identifying and understanding the emotional dynamics within your relationship. The emphasis is not on changing the other person, but on understanding one’s own patterns of reaction and taking responsibility for one’s own emotional experience in interaction with each other.
Change takes time, willingness, and the capacity for self-reflection. Couples who engage in this process often gain greater inner clarity, calmer communication, and a growing sense of personal responsibility, even in emotionally challenging situations.
01
Couples Therapy
100 € | 90 Minutes
At the beginning, we focus on understanding your relationship history and the recurring patterns that shape your conflicts, without blame or accusations.
As the therapy progresses, we work on three levels: your self-awareness, your understanding of each other, and your insight into your shared relational dynamic.
Building on this, new ways of communicating can emerge that support personal growth and a stronger partnership.
Many couples begin to notice initial changes after 6 to 12 sessions.
02
1:1 Counseling
65 € | 60 Minutes
Even if you decide to actively shape your relationship on your own, you will notice a tangible change in how you interact with your partner.
In the sessions, we address your core issues, analyze the underlying dynamics, and work toward sustainable solutions through self-reflection and personal growth.
In this way, you not only strengthen yourself but also the connection between you.
For initial positive changes, I recommend at least 3 sessions.
My Approach
I work with a differentiation-based approach. It focuses on strengthening emotional stability within oneself while remaining in relationship. The goal is to allow closeness without losing oneself, and to tolerate conflict without escalating or avoiding it.
This approach makes unproductive relational patterns visible and supports both personal and relational growth by placing self-differentiation at the center.
Couples who go through this process learn to see differences not as a threat, but as an enrichment. They develop the ability to address important topics and decisions together in a more constructive and calmer way.